Being extrovert is a sign of confidence


Being a first timer to spoke in front of 40 people ,she finished her news in a  minute ,without hesitating ,even without any nervousness. Her voice was thundering enough to wake the rest of the students and there was a spark of confidence in her eyes . This is Aradhya Pandit from mass communication first year .This attitude of hers act like a catalyst for other speaker by giving them a tinge of confidence .Being an extrovert is no doubt is a symbol of confidence .However , one should take care of the fact that quick reaction can even change the direction of favourable winds for one . 


Sometimes, when you speak without thinking  twice ,it can lead to the emotional tension in ones relationship with others .The  ‘trust’   factor slowly starts disappearing form one’s life just like “water evaporates in the presence of sun” Being an extrovert act like a ‘heat’ which only melt your relationships. Ones loved once do not share their personal views , problems or happiness .its because of the reason that they do not want to be a ‘hot n crispy masala ‘ topic for others to being discussed .


Apart from this , ones nature can create a feeling of ‘disrespect’ among the elders .People also get irritated soon and they start maintaining distance. Aradhya is a friend of many but still she is looking for a best friend apart from her extrovert nature .


When you are open enough in public , its become easy for the others to target your weaknesses. Your personal life becomes public which can actually take your confidence away .Being  an extrovert is not a sin but only if it is used in a positive way . By the above opinion of mine , I am not against it but actually “Sometimes its good to remain silent rather than being an extrovert “

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